A Fun Tip To Awaken the Power of your Breath
I’ve got a fun and simple tip to awaken the power of your breath to shift worry, feel better, and effect powerful changes.
Breathe deeply.
Sounds simple doesnât it? Â
Yet, all too often our breath is shallow, and only reaches our upper chest. Â
Worry and looping thoughts often accompany shallow breathing. But when you are worrying, how do you take a deep breath?Â
Discovering the Power of Breath, through song, and my horse!
I first got an inkling of the power of my breath for taking my focus off of a problem and effecting change back in 1988 in one of my first Centered Riding Lessons while on my horse Ibis. Â
My riding instructor had me sing âRow, Row, Rowâ your boat while trotting! I thought she was off her rocker! Â
Surprisingly, I could barely get out the simple one word syllables. My breath was so shallow and constricted. Plus, I felt incredibly silly to be singing while riding!
As I continued singing however, my breath became deeper. Oddly enough, I felt my horse trotting in a steadier rhythm and able to go easily down the ring in straight lines – as soon as my breath deepened.Â
Before singing, and breathing more deeply, no matter what I tried, he was not trotting in a steady rhythm, nor would he trot in straight lines. I thought the problem lay with my horse.
New Territory
Through the simple act of changing my breathing pattern, I experienced 5 surprising and immediate benefits.
1) I felt better physically when singing
2) My emotions and worries calmed down
3) My horse changed his way of movement easily
4) I discovered a new form of communication, with my own body, and between my horse and I
5) I discovered an easy way to effect change with issues & problems that were previously difficult
My breath deepened, my body relaxed, my focus shifted off the problem, I felt better, and my horse changed. What? This was new territory for me. Â
FUN TIP:
Start by singing a few bars of Row, Row Your Boat out loud just to get you going, especially if you are not used to singing at all.
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This gets your throat and diaphragm opening with blood flowing. Continue to sing the song for a few minutes.Â
Notice your breath starts to deepen automatically.
And, did your focus move away from any worries or issues?Â
Just because youâre singing!
Purposefully Shift Your Attention This Week
Breath can carry you through any issue or uncomfortable circumstance into a dramatic and powerful shift physically, physiologically, mentally and emotionally.
Use the power of breath with this simple song for a way to purposefully shift your attention this week away from an issue or problem. Try this with ANY issue that arises: Walking a dog that pulls on the leash, leading or riding your horse, financial worries, physical pain, emotional concerns, etc.
Sing the Full Verse
Sing the entire verse over and over for a few minutes at a time, at least once a day for the next 7 days:  âRow, Row, Row Your boat, gently down the stream, merrily, merrily, merrily, life is but a dream.â Â
Let the Words Inspire You
As I was writing this article, I realized the words are also a great metaphor for living life and give a purposeful directive on how to live:
Row gently through life, donât go upstream, go with the flow, merrymaking. Remember life is but a dream that youâre creating. Â
The lyrics bring your attention to creating flow vs being stuck in focusing on a problem or issue. Â
Singing to Feel Good
Direct physical changes occur in your nervous system when singing, reducing stress and muscle tension, and increases your ability to problem-solve and focus. Â
An article on the neuroscience of singing in uplift.com states, âNumerous studies demonstrate that singing releases endorphins and oxytocin â which in turn relieve anxiety and stress and which are linked to feelings of trust and bonding.â Â
When you create this type of shift in yourself, you have increased the potential for others to shift as well. Just as I experienced with Ibis all those years ago. Â
Mahatma Gandhi said, âWe but mirror the world. All the tendencies present in the outer world are to be found in the world of our body. If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. This is the divine mystery supreme. A wonderful thing it is and the source of our happiness. We need not wait to see what others do.â â
Share Your Positive Influences of Singing Row, Row, Row Your Boat
Share what you are experiencing with those around you and let us know too!  Leave your comment below.
I look forward to hearing the positive influences you notice when you start singing âRow, Row, Row Your boat.â Â
Sandy
About the author, Sandy Rakowitz:
Sandy empowers people to access and develop their natural Intuitive, Deepest Knowing while awakening their life purpose.
Connecting with the Divine Spark in themselves, their animals, and âAll-That-Isâ through Animal Communication, Brennan Hands of Light Energy Healing with people and animals, Tellingon TTouch, Essential Oils, Money Empowerment, Life & Business Coaching, plus channeled holistic healing methods, including her Creative Art Journaling process and the Awaken Animal Communication Method.
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Marian Andrews says
Thanks, Sandy. I used to sing as I rode my horse. It made me feel like Dale Evans. I like to sing, “I’ve got spurs that jingle, jangle, jingle”. I also gave songs to each horse. My ex’s horse was “Run for the Roses” by Dan Fogelburg. I sang it to him as the vet put him to sleep at age 27. My horse’s song was “Changing Horses”: Changing horses in the middle of a stream leaves you wet and sometimes cold; changing faces in the middle of a dream leaves you old.” I do have a tendency to breathe shallowly because it increases my headache if I try to breathe deeply or focus or my breathing, but music has always been a big part of my life. My mother taught piano and my brother taught me to play guitar. I wrote poetry, so I wrote simple songs to sing to my cats and dogs. They were a good audience.
Sandy Rakowitz says
This is so beautiful Marian. I hope you can start singing again and find that it is helpful for you, diminishing any discomfort. Animals are a great audience aren’t they? Let us know how it goes with ‘Row, Row, Row your boat!’
Linda Tellington-Jones says
Hi Sandy
This is a beautiful tip.
And I really dig the meaning behind row row your boat. What a metaphor for life!
By the way -You are a beautiful writer and your words hold such deep meaning. I very much enjoyed reading this tip. Thank you for being in my life
Sending much love and heart hugs, EleleLinda
Sandy Rakowitz says
Thank you Linda! I know, this Song IS FANTASTIC! I love it more and more, the more I think about it! Power UP! Merrily Along! Thank you for being in my life!