Hi Diana,
I’m so sorry about your loss. Anniversaries can be so challenging. I’m so glad you googled, found my website and this article, and that you’ve found comfort and inspiration.
I hope you’re able to do something special to mark this important anniversary to give yourself an outlet for all the love you’ve had with your beloved. It’s so important to give yourself this gift.
I just spread some of my horse’s ashes – even though it’s been over 4 years since he died. Even though I’ve done so many things to mark his life, passage and all he’s meant to me. I found that spreading more of his ashes again to feel oddly comforting, even all these years later. It’s so important to continue to follow your instincts on what you need. And if you don’t know just try something, anything no matter how small. Last year I painted up a new batch of memorial stones to place at his gravesite. (I have some of his ashes buried, and some in an urn.). You need to do whatever you need, whenever you feel the need regardless of how often, how much time has passed or what anyone else says.
To finding your way with your heart and deep love,
Sandy
When dealing with a decline of function I’ve found it helpful to continue to stay emotionally and physically present with both yourself and your animal. Continuing to take good physical care of their needs, like picking them up to take them outside to go to the bathroom and supporting them when they eat.
I’ve found that saving money each week like not having coffee, or other extras and setting that money aside for vet care to be helpful. Many vet offices will offer a payment plan if you call ahead and ask and set up a realistic payment plan.
Blessings to you and your beloved.
Hi Amy,
I’m so sorry to hear you lost your sweet Bandi. It sounds like he was a special being and clearly deeply loved.
Feeling guilty is normal, though it is good to get support in clearing and releasing this emotion. I am glad you are able to cry and release some of the emotion.
Blessings to you,
Sandy
Ps if you’re interested in a communication session and healing this can be extremely healing. Blessings and go gently during this time.
Hi Cathie,
Yes, Jamie does still do this work. This was an article about him that I printed referring Jamie and his wonderful work. You can contact him directly through his website at http://thevibrancypath.com/
Enjoy!
Sandy Rakowitz
Hi- So glad you were on the tour with the Kites! It was so fun. The demonstration with the guy flying the 3 kites synchronized together to the song Over the Rainbow was so beautiful and touching, like dancing kites!
I posted a video with highlights from both the Kite Tours in the Heygo Voyager group, and on my Youtube Channel. I hope that you and your grandson enjoyed it! Here is the link again on my Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQXsysfUzqg&t=4s
Please follow me on Heygo, if you aren’t already- One Heart Adventures – https://www.heygo.com/one-heart-adventures
Thank you!
Sandy Rakowitz
i was on your kite tour and so bewitched with the demo that i forgot to take photos..I would love just a couple of the demo triple kites for my grandson
thanks
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